"When the bud opens it becomes a flower. When the heart opens up, it becomes divine. The flower can't open. Only the bud opens. It's opening up and that's a good thing. True love never has a broken heart. Heartbreak is unmet needs, unfulfilled expectations, dashed hopes.
How can love break? Love can't break. Can water break? Water is fluid. Love is fluid. That which flows is not fragile. Only something frozen can be fragile. That's what can break.
Life is a flow. The stream carries leaves, sometimes a log, sometimes a frog, sometimes swans, sometimes fish, sometimes mud, all kinds of industrial waste - everything. He doesn't discriminate. Does he say, "You're a flower. I'll only carry you. And you're logs, I can't stand logs.". He makes no distinction. If you pour something good into the water, like milk, it will carry it away. If you pour out the waste, the water will take that away too. Put down the flower and she'll take it away. Throw away the trash and it's gone. Life is this kind of flow.
Events are like stones. They just stay where they are. �� And you be easy, let things go and don't worry ��. Easily touch these stones and walk away. Life is full of pleasant and unpleasant, good and bad events. Many times you've done something and unintentionally hurt people. You try not to offend people, but in spite of that, people get offended. Sometimes you hurt people because you're unaware. It's the same with other people. Sometimes by their striving for something they hurt you. And it turns out that either they or you feel heartbroken. This is not typical of a mature mind and mature love.
When you get back together with a friend or ex-partner, talk to them as if nothing happened in the past, as if you were meeting them for the first time. d You don't have to explain d. Yes, you were partners for a while and then something happened, willingly or unwillingly. You're separated. So what? You're seeing him again and talking. Be friendly, as if nothing happened. You have no enemies in this world. Live as if you have no enemies.
Our problem is that we express our love too much. When we express our love too abundantly, after a while we find there's nothing left to express. You've expressed it all, the supply's gone. You can say, "You're beautiful. I love you so much". But those are just words, thoughts. There's nothing going on inside. No inside flow, we're not sincere. And we try to convey the thought to the other, "Yes, I really love you.".
When there's no flow of love, we try to deceive and show others that we still love them and that love lives in us. But you know very well that what was before is gone. We just have to face the fact.
My love depends on me. Today I'm inclined to love. I don't feel like loving tomorrow. Yesterday I had more love in me. What's going on in me? Something is, something inside of me happens. It doesn't depend on anyone else. By focusing on ourselves, we begin our journey of development. Then you can ask yourself, "Is it possible to love all the time, every minute, all your life?" And then from within, from heart and mind, a heavy weight is lifted. Then the flow of love intensifies. And all these attempts to prove their closeness to the other person are the cause of problems.
You don't have to convince and say, "I love you so much.". If she understands, then she understands. Maybe she needs a few more days. Trying to convince is just turning the boat upside down. Don't try to prove something to someone and don't try to become close to him. You can't get any closer than you are.
When love is expressed too often, it doesn't last. It's like a seed. It has to be planted and kept in the soil, underground. Don't talk about your love too much. Love your loved ones so that they do not really know that you love them. Keep your love a secret I won't tell him I love him. I'll keep it a secret.". What will happen then?? Your love will blossom in your actions. She says it over and over again: "Oh, I love you, I love you, I love you," you're ruining love.
An enlightened man will never say, "I love you so much.". You can feel love in his very presence. You can feel the love in your breath. You can feel the love in your eyes. You will hear love in every word you say. The very existence is love. It's enlightened love. It wasn't expressed in words, but manifested in matter.
"When the bud opens it becomes a flower. When the heart opens up, it becomes divine. The flower can't open. Only the bud opens. It's opening up and that's a good thing. True love never has a broken heart. Heartbreak is unmet needs, unfulfilled expectations, dashed hopes.
How can love break? Love can't break. Can water break? Water is fluid. Love is fluid. That which flows is not fragile. Only something frozen can be fragile. That's what can break.
Life is a flow. The stream carries leaves, sometimes a log, sometimes a frog, sometimes swans, sometimes fish, sometimes mud, all kinds of industrial waste - everything. He doesn't discriminate. Does he say, "You're a flower. I'll only carry you. And you're logs, I can't stand logs.". He makes no distinction. If you pour something good into the water, like milk, it will carry it away. If you pour out the waste, the water will take that away too. Put down the flower and she'll take it away. Throw away the trash and it's gone. Life is this kind of flow.
Events are like stones. They just stay where they are. �� And you be easy, let things go and don't worry ��. Easily touch these stones and walk away. Life is full of pleasant and unpleasant, good and bad events. Many times you've done something and unintentionally hurt people. You try not to offend people, but in spite of that, people get offended. Sometimes you hurt people because you're unaware. It's the same with other people. Sometimes by their striving for something they hurt you. And it turns out that either they or you feel heartbroken. This is not typical of a mature mind and mature love.
When you get back together with a friend or ex-partner, talk to them as if nothing happened in the past, as if you were meeting them for the first time. d You don't have to explain d. Yes, you were partners for a while and then something happened, willingly or unwillingly. You're separated. So what? You're seeing him again and talking. Be friendly, as if nothing happened. You have no enemies in this world. Live as if you have no enemies.
Our problem is that we express our love too much. When we express our love too abundantly, after a while we find there's nothing left to express. You've expressed it all, the supply's gone. You can say, "You're beautiful. I love you so much". But those are just words, thoughts. There's nothing going on inside. No inside flow, we're not sincere. And we try to convey the thought to the other, "Yes, I really love you.".
When there's no flow of love, we try to deceive and show others that we still love them and that love lives in us. But you know very well that what was before is gone. We just have to face the fact.
My love depends on me. Today I'm inclined to love. I don't feel like loving tomorrow. Yesterday I had more love in me. What's going on in me? Something is, something inside of me happens. It doesn't depend on anyone else. By focusing on ourselves, we begin our journey of development. Then you can ask yourself, "Is it possible to love all the time, every minute, all your life?" And then from within, from heart and mind, a heavy weight is lifted. Then the flow of love intensifies. And all these attempts to prove their closeness to the other person are the cause of problems.
You don't have to convince and say, "I love you so much.". If she understands, then she understands. Maybe she needs a few more days. Trying to convince is just turning the boat upside down. Don't try to prove something to someone and don't try to become close to him. You can't get any closer than you are.
When love is expressed too often, it doesn't last. It's like a seed. It has to be planted and kept in the soil, underground. Don't talk about your love too much. Love your loved ones so that they do not really know that you love them. Keep your love a secret I won't tell him I love him. I'll keep it a secret.". What will happen then?? Your love will blossom in your actions. She says it over and over again: "Oh, I love you, I love you, I love you," you're ruining love.
An enlightened man will never say, "I love you so much.". You can feel love in his very presence. You can feel the love in your breath. You can feel the love in your eyes. You will hear love in every word you say. The very existence is love. It's enlightened love. It wasn't expressed in words, but manifested in matter.